On January 9, 2026, the Offender Database confirmed that Lilly May Burns, 23, of Glenwood, Canvey Island, Essex, was sentenced at Basildon Crown Court for a “reprehensible” campaign of domestic violence and extortion. Over the course of a two-month relationship, Burns subjected her boyfriend to physical torture, including biting, slapping, and burning him with lighters and cannabis joints. The court heard that she strangled the victim on multiple occasions and used extreme psychological manipulation to prevent him from ending the relationship.
The prosecution, led by Ciaran Smith, detailed a “nasty” campaign of intimidation where Burns threatened to falsely accuse the victim of being a paedophile and a rapist. She posted a “name and shame” message on Facebook, falsely labelling him a “woman beater” to ruin his reputation. Furthermore, she made horrific threats to desecrate his late father’s grave, claiming she would “dig him up and feed him to the pigs.” The victim was so terrified that he only managed to end the relationship when police arrived to remove her from his home physically.
Burns pleaded guilty to engaging in coercive or controlling behaviour and sending threatening communications with intent. While the defence highlighted her multiple mental health diagnoses—including ADHD, ASD, and oppositional defiant disorder—the judge emphasised the “humiliating and degrading” nature of her crimes. Despite the severity of the threats, which included attempting to set fire to the victim’s carpet while he was inside, the court heard that she had shown remorse and remained out of trouble during the intervening years.
Judge Siew Loke sentenced Burns to 10 months in prison, with the sentence suspended for 18 months. This means she will not serve time in custody unless she breaches her court-mandated conditions, which include completing 20 days of rehabilitation activity. The victim reported significant mental scars from the abuse, including anxiety and fear of communication with his own family. Official monitoring of Burns will be managed by the National Probation Service and Essex Police to ensure the ongoing safety of the victim.
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